How to stop comparing myself – mu anyamananka sahita nijaku tulana kariba kipari band kariparibi
Introduction
ଏହି book ti jane curious student and jane experienced teacher nka bhitare heuthiba conversation, ଯାହା Socratic (co-operative teaching that involve dialogue of questions and answers) ଧାରାପ୍ରବାହକୁ ସ୍ମରଣ କରାଏ—ନିୟମିତ ପ୍ରଶ୍ନ ପଚାରି ଭାବନାକୁ ଉସେଜିତ kariba – ଏହି କସଥାପକଥନମୂଳକ ଶୈଳୀ ପୁସ୍ତକଟିକୁ ବିଶେଷକରି modern students and youth, ଓ new prefessional ପାଇଁ ଅତୟନ୍ତ ହଜ ଓ ଆକଷଷଣୀୟ କରିଥାଏ। ପୁସ୍ତକଟି ଆପଣଙ୍କୁ ବିଭିନ୍ନ ଜୀବନ ରାସ୍ତାରୁ ଅସୁଥିବା ବାସ୍ତବ ଅଭିଜ୍ଞତା ହ ବୟବହାରିକ ଟିପ୍ସ ସେଇଯାଏ। ଭାଷା ରଳ ebon ଲକ୍ଷ୍ୟ re pahanchiba pai right path dekheibare help kariba.
Student: Ama charipakhare duniya epari bhabare hoi galani je ame anyamananka apekhya better hele madhya kahiki kehi notice karanti nahi, kimba bhala madhya paanti nahi.
Teacher: Ame jibana ra real meaning bujhiba paribarte 2ti michha dharana upare thought epari hei jaichi, jaha ki ama ku epari comparison ra shikar hebaku paduchi.
Student: keuumana nku?,
Teacher: prathama bhul dharana heuchi je dunia eka sunya sanjoga ra khela.
Student: sunya sanjoga khela ra meaning kana?
Teacher: Ehara meaning heuchi jane jitibaku hele anya jana ku haribaku padiba. Jadi mora score +1 hue, tebe tumra score -1 heba abasyaka. Jaha dawara result balance heipariba. Tara mane heuchi kichi loka nkara development heba bele kicchi loka nkara demotion bi hue.
Student: Eha true nuhe ki?
Teacher: satya tharu bahut dura re. Reality re dekhibaku gale ame samaste anya kahara hariba pai wait kariba paribarte nija ra success upare focus kariba uchit. Duniya re bahut opportunity achi. Historically dekhantu apana eha feel kariparibe. India ku consider kariba, ama parent’s nka generation re lifestyle kete struggleful thila. Semananka parents nka generation re loka nkara lifestyle ahuri struggleful thila. Oppositely, ame ete opportunity paichu jaha semane kebe feel karinahanti ki expect bi kari nathibe.
Student: Eha kahibara artha kana eha je, pizza ra eka bada piece pai fight kariba paribarte, mu jete pizza piece chahibi pai paribi?
Teacher: Only imaginary yes,
Student: Sunibaku majadar laguchi.
Teacher: Eha true je ame samaste bahut different. Different opportunity bi face karithau. Ehara meaning heuchi presetting/ purba-nirdharita bhabare ame samaste different place re pahanchiba because ame samaste differently start karithile. Ehaku ehipari bhaba, Earth planet re epari kehi nahanti, je sampoorna bhabe same thought thiba. Only thought nuhe, tumara attitude, behaviour, tumara khyamata, tumara pasand, tume keun thare janma neicha, tumara family, tumara upbringing, tumara bhagya sabu tuma pai ete differently hei thae ki kehi tuma pari heiparibe nahi. Jehetu samaste different way re start karithile, preplan hisabare samastankara differently sesa heba.
Student: But mu eha kahibaku chahuchi je kounasi kama ku start kari taku karyakari kariba bahut difficult heithae. Jetebele mu kahaku bbhala karuthibara dekhe mu kebala etiki dekhe je maximum people successful heuchhanti but mu kainhiki nuhe.
Teacher: jetebele mu anya kahaku jitibara dekhe mu nijaku eha pachare; jadi semane mo tharu adhika successful and adhika income karuchhanti, tebe eha kana sabbudina pai continue rahiba. Jadi ebe semana nka pakhare job achi but mora nahi, tebe ehara mane kana mora kebe job heba nahi. Jadi semane eka bhala relation re rahiparuchhanti, tebe ehara meaning kana mu sabu dina pai eka hei rahibi. Ehi samasta question ra answer heuchi no.
Student: apana jaha kahile, that is helpful. Kintu real re nuhe.mu ebe bi bhabuchi je jadi mu success pai paru nahi, Se moment re mu keuthi se peace paibi?
Teacher: Ame manisha mane jeu bhabana dei gati karithau, taha constant nuhe. Ame aji jaha feel karuchu, kali hue ta sehi same feeling karibu nahi. Still aji ame jaha feel karuchu taha demotivate karipare kimba, kicchi new step neba pai inspiration deipare. Tume jane bhala job karithiba friend ku dekhicha, and se time re tumara job nahi. Se jagare eiya feel kara ki job kariba pai mote adhika preparation and labour pai try kariba uchit.
Student: Eha suniba bahut easy kintu kariba bahut difficult. Bele bele mind divert heithae. Confidence low bhi heithae, lage ki eha mo dwara heipariba na nahi.
Teacher: Hn ehi pari thought ama mind re asithae, sehi time re amaku self-realization karibaku heba. Nijaku nije pachara ki, Mu nijaku kahiki kharap feel karuchi?? Jemti anyamane bhala kari paruchhanti, mu kahiniki nuhe? Satare mote kipari nija thought ku change karibaku padiba?? jadi mora ebe job nahi, ehara mane eiya nuhe ki mora kebe bi job heba nahi? I need to change my thought;
Everything is possible, kebala darkar right path, dedication, constant preparation, jaha ki mote aneka job paibare help karipariba.Eha kebala time and patient ra katha. Disturb karuthiba element gudiku
identify kariki taku sudharile sabu kichi possible heipariba.
May be ehahi success heba ra mula mantra. Then stop comparing yourself with others.
Jetebele tume preparation kariba pai really try kariba, setebele tumaku jana padiba je next step re mote kan sabu path follow karibaku padiba. Always research yourself and keep motivated yourself.
Student: Okay, eha ta thik je anya manaka saha compare kariba sabuthu bad habbit, ehaku change karibaku padiba.
Then anya manaka saha imaginary/diplomaticly katha barta kariba paribarte nija sahita real re katha barta karibara upaya kana?
Teacher: Smile deichanti ebon kahichhanti je eha ame next topic re discuss kariba.
We discuss this topic in next video. Still then bye by and takacare.